One of the easiest ways to have a secret affair, a relationship outside of your marriage or committed relationship that your partner or spouse doesnít know about, is to have a long distance secret affair, particularly if you travel often for work or to visit family.
The separation that distance provides can help you keep the relationship a secret, and it also makes those special times when you get to be together that much more exciting.
Even if you donít travel regularly, you can conduct a secret affair at a distance, especially if youíre worried about getting discovered or keeping a relationship going thatís too close to home.
For those that do travel regularly, having a secret lover in the city where you spend your time at work or with family can be a great way to dull the boredom of travel.
You can contact that person each time youíre scheduled to visit to arrange a meeting (or two or three), and you already have the perfect built-in alibi as your spouse or partner knows that youíre away and hard to reach.
You also donít have to worry about neighbors or co-workers accidentally seeing you when youíre out in public, so it can be very freeing and relaxing to spend time with this lover far away from home.
Plus, you can typically spend even more time with this lover than you could with one at home as you can invite them to not only come over for a fling or a quickie, you can invite them to stay the night in your hotel room with little fear of being found out.
If you donít travel regularly for work, you can have a person in a far off city that you can create an alibi to go visit.
Invent an old college friend of the same gender (or pick a city where an old friend actually lives to make the lie easier), and plan yourself a weekend to travel to this town solo.
It is a legitimate alibi, and itís an easy way to have a secret affair with little fear of being discovered.
It might be hard to sustain a secret affair like this if you donít travel regularly, but it can be a great way to see if this is a type of relationship youíd like to have on a more permanent basis at home, and it can spice up your life for a special weekend or two.
A secret lover in a far-off town is also easy to manage as you donít have to worry about them suddenly showing up at your doorstep.
You donít need to worry about being seen in public, and you have an alibi already built in.
Yes, you need to be careful with phone and email conversations, but itís a lot easier to manage than meeting someone in person in your hometown.
If you travel a lot or just want to get started with a secret affair, consider something long distance to get started.